So recently me and this girl have been taking turns controlling each other. So everyday it switches. Today I controlled her and tomorrow she controls me. We’ve both been denied for 4 days now.

We have been chatting for awhile now but just started this. We originally meet when I tried to make an edging group on discord that ended up dying like 2 weeks later. But we kept in contact and would periodically edge together.

Now to the meat of this post, I have always considered myself a sub (male btw) and enjoy being controlled by others. So controlling a partner is kinda new to me. Especially a woman. But for the past few days I’d say I am doing a good job. I’m making sure to check up on how shes feeling and if she enjoying herself. But I’ve basically just been controlling her in ways that i enjoy. She seems to be loving it regardless. I never knew I had a dom side in me tbh. I’m really enjoying controlling her, like a lot. I’d say today I really filled the dom roll and did everything I feel like I’d like a dom to do to/for me. Like I started having her call me sir or daddy, and I call her my little slut (I checked to make sure she was ok with that first). At first she was reluctant but now she seems to be loving it. Like when I was edging her earlier today she kept moaning “ my pussy is yours sir” and stuff like that. That stuff turned me on so much lol. But that’s what bring me here, I wanna make sure I’m doing a good job in her mind. So I’d love some tips from women on how they want to be controlled. Our relationship is solely online since we live on opposite sides of the globe, literally. She just sat down for dinner and I should’ve been asleep a few hours ago.

Anyways, like I was saying today I really embraced the roll of dom and had her do a lot of things and even had to punish her a few times for not listening. I feel like I was alittle intense with her at times but she seemed to enjoy it. My last task for her today was to reflect on the day and let me know how she felt about it all and to tell me if she really didn’t like something. So we’ll see how she responds to that in the morning.

Ok so this is where the actually advice I’m looking for is. So I’m kinda running out of ways to tease and play with her, so I’d love some ideas of what you ladies like to be told to do. For example im having trouble coming up with new things for her to do. Like since I’m going to bed soon I gave her one video to watch and follow the instructions to and another to watch right before bed but she has to keep her hand on her vagina and clit throughout the whole video without rubbing. I want her to feel herself get wetter as she watches the video while shes not allowed to play with herself.

Ya so idk what I’m really asking for here. I’m really just looking for tips and ideas on ways that women like to be controlled. I’d love to here what you ladies enjoy about being dommed and what you would like your dom to do for you both sexually and emotionally.