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Hello all! I am a 35F 2 years out of a decade long relationship with a mostly vanilla partner. In short, I thought love could conquer all, and it turned out I was very, very wrong.

So I hopped my millennial ass on Tinder and found some wonderful experiences reminiscent of the fetish lifestyle I enjoyed and largely took for granted in my early adulthood.

About a year ago I met a man who I have amazing chemistry with. We've really let loose enjoying the kinky comforts previous partners would not indulge, and one of the things we've been playing with has been power play, edging and denying me orgasm - obviously. Hence why I'm here.

We started off small: from a few days, to one week, two weeks, one month, etc. It has been a wild ride. I am currently sitting at 7 weeks and I am seriously struggling. My entire body is responding in a bittersweet mixture of pure ecstacy and burning, urgent frustration.

I have trouble regulating my mood. I have gained weight. My breasts feel heavier and more sensitive. My nipples are usually erect even without stimulation. I often find myself clenching my jaw. My pelvic floor muscles and all the muscle groups in my lower abdomen feel constantly tense. I have never been this constantly wet in all my life, to the point that I need to change my underwear throughout the day.

This is usually the point when I give up because I feel like the only solution is an orgasm; when my grasp on other areas of my life becomes tenuous. I have been trying various mindfulness and meditation practices to try and relax my body and mind, but it only helps so much and the carnal itch deep within me desperately pleads to be scratched.

I come to you now because a particularly long and sadistic edging session I endured last night has pushed me to my limit. He could tell my dedication to sacrifice has been faltering and suggested some chastity devices to keep me "pure" and "on track". I am seriously considering a type of clitoral piercing that would interfere with or block any direct clitoral stimulation. I feel that would be more comfortable (not to mention more sanitary) for the long term than any chastity belt. We both agree that I need more coping mechanisms in place to protect me from myself.

So please, tell me how you keep yourselves (and your subs) happy and healthy during long term denial? My physical and mental health and wellbeing is of the utmost importance. I am currently having the best sex of my life. I don't want to spoil it with an orgasm. Any and all advice, tips and tricks would be greatly appreciated.

Good girls don't cum.

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