This is the first I’ve explicitly discussed orgasm denial with a guy. It’s been 15 days. He knows that I like it very much and I told him I wouldn’t want to change it. Edging is also in play with orgasm denial for me.

I explicitly have made the rule of not using my vibrator because that sends me over the edge. He made a stipulation of three days with a butt plug in and I could cum. But I just keep denying myself more and more, and he is denying me too.

How do you all keep going and make sure you’re not getting over the edge? I feel I’ve been able to maintain myself fine but I’d like any suggestions or even some insight to what you all do.