I have anorgasmia. (I've never been formally diagnosed, but I feel pretty comfortable saying so given that I've never had an orgasm, and not for lack of trying.) I've also had a giant fetish for chastity, edging, orgasm control and denial as long as I can remember—but I've always felt kind of cut off from communities and spaces dedicated to talking about it, given that prolonged frustration, masturbation for hours without coming, and never-satisfied horniness aren't a choice for me :( (Even though I'm pretty sure they would be if I could!) Also, I can't ruin. But I still want to be able to whine and beg and be denied and mocked, have my desperate cunt tortured and teased, and have someone slowly and mercilessly make me dripping wet just to take pleasure in my suffering... I don't know, what do you guys think—can someone with anorgasmia still participate in denial kink? Would anyone be into a denial sub like that?

(I'm a non-op FTM with a tdick, please respect my gender.)