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Denial makes me so much better!!
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I can’t get over all the ways denial has improved our dynamic. It’s truly been a game changer.
- Being denied keeps me ready and wanting. This makes the free-use aspect of our dynamic much stronger. Free-use has huge benefits for us. Giving him free access to use my body for his pleasure makes him happy (and it turns me on). He stays happier and calmer because of it.
- Being denied keeps me focused on his pleasure. I know I won’t be receiving any, so it frees my mind up to focus on his. The closest I will get to sexual pleasure is pleasing him and him using my body. So I end up craving his release instead of thinking about my own. This focus on pleasing him makes him happy and results in extra affection and praise for me! Love that!
- Being denied makes me feel like such a good girl. Pleasing him without any pleasure for myself leaves me feeling like such a good girl - such a good sub. It makes me feel so proud of myself! And he will tell me what a good girl I am for it too. I love that feeling!
- Being denied makes it so easy to be constantly in that submissive & sexual mindset. It creates some desperation (in a good way). That feeling encourages me to push harder towards our goals. I have made so much progress on deep throating since adding in denial.
- Being denied has started to feel like the natural or correct state. Our entire D/s dynamic is built on him taking control. Giving him control of my orgasms seems like the obvious choice. And that enables him to use my orgasms (or lack thereof) to train me and discipline me and encourage me to please him better.
- Being denied creates this constant sense of arousal. The aching and throbbing and general arousal can be incredibly pleasurable. And those feelings can last for days - much longer than an orgasm!
- Being denied intensifies sensations. When I am allowed to orgasm now, they are incredibly strong! And knowing that I earned it by pleasing him many times over the course of multiple days just makes it that much better!
Denial has improved our communication, intimacy, dynamic, and relationship as a whole. I am so thankful for it! Currently going 3 or 4 days is really hard. But I’m excited to keep pushing myself and adding more days over time!
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