Edging and denial has truly brought out the best in me! I’ve been thinking about how our dynamic has evolved and the role edging and denial played!

I’ve known I was submissive in the bedroom for many years. But a few years ago, I got really into the idea of expanding the dynamic. Thankfully D was on board and we started implementing a few day-day rules and expectations. That evolved over time and some of our key rules became being respectful and wearing my ownership items. D started talking about controlling my orgasms a few months ago and it took me a bit to come to terms with the idea. Once I agreed, things really changed. Being denied helped me really deepen and improve my submission. It helped me focus on his pleasure. And the neediness helped me make progress on goals like I never had before. We implemented free use at the same time. I quickly saw how much these changes improved us and our relationship. We’ll never go back!