So, on May 1st, I came six times.
I have had 3 ruins since split between two play sessions.
I have had one hands-free edge.
I had two 5-day no-touch periods and a 7-day no-touch stint.
I have edged 864 times. I don't know. Do you think that is enough?

I have had two different men with the "final say" on whether I could orgasm, but I currently am in a state of being unowned, and it's a bit gray who can permit me. (Only someone with rapport can do this right now, and these people in my life are all dealing with their own non-kink stuff that takes precedence.)

I am needy AF and starving for structure, accountability, and dominance, but I am unwilling to force a dynamic or settle anymore. I've been hurt too many times.

My original goal for my most recent Daddy was 69 days. He ended things. Now, two Doms I respect greatly have encouraged me to go to 100 days. That's the new goal.

But self-denial is not my thing. I enjoy the service of denial most of all. Suffering for the pleasure of my betters is the best feeling in the world. Learning and growing through the challenges placed on me by those I have entrusted with my care and guidance. It's about the mindfuck and the connection more than the physiological need and horniness. It is nearly impossible to get that on my own.

So I play with many people, connect with the good ones, and am a hoebag. But I have standards, and despite my love and need to be degraded, I only entertain communication from those who interact with me from a space of decency and respect for me as a human.

Since it's been a long time since the last time I posted, I figured I'd throw a bio out here, and if you are an intelligent human with respect for the boundaries I include and an interest in anything I list, feel free to hit me up. Maybe we can start up a new kinky friendship. You never know what it could lead to. I'm not an easy sub by any means, but I am a fucking stellar one unlike any other you've met, and I am rewarding as hell when the rapport is built.

Name: Ginger.
Age: 37
Gender: non-identified, AFAB - default to female
Pronouns: she/they
Orientation: pansexual, sapiosexual, demisexual

Hobbies/Interests:

• reading

• following sports

• tv/movies

• gaming

• curating/organizing/optimizing excessively organized collections (ie: porn, infographics, kink resources)

• musical theater and Broadway junkie

• writing

• educating people about sex/kink/disability and the intersectionality of the three

• running my orgasm denial server

Kinks:

• orgasm denial

• TPE & power exchange in general

• extreme degradation

• gooning

• overstimulation

• being brought to tears (emotional and desperation tears are so much better than physical pain ones)

• hypnosis/conditioning

• humiliation

• being held accountable for tasks that I have to do in my day-to-day life

• lines and writing tasks

• objectification

• Bruises I can wear with pride

• DD/lg

• emotional masochism

• impact/pain play

• mind fucks

• throwing myself under the bus and digging holes with Dom/mes

• exhibitionism (online only - voice especially but being made to show my face too)

• a hand around my throat and a fist in my hair putting me in my place

• being passed around by strangers with my lovense toys for hours

• bladder control

• laughing while playing

• curious about tickling

• attention of any kind.

• CLEAR, CONSISTENT COMMUNICATION

• CONSENT

• using kink as an opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth

Limits:

• non-negotiated communication denial/ being ignored/ long periods of silence that haven't been given a heads-up for or have a reason why they couldn't tell me (long is relative to the frequency we talk in that dynamic, and emergencies happen, but if it's a repeated thing, it is a limit).

• heavy nipple pain

• feet

• bodily fluid in the mouth (any fluids including cum) (some fantasy play around this is fine and sexy, just not the actual thing because of my OCD triggers)

• scat

• illegal

• bigotry

• age play

• permanent damage

• inflexibility to my disability and mental health issues as they arise

Other Stuff:

• I am owned by two parrots. You will very likely meet them.

• I use a wheelchair and will joke about it in awful ways. But there is literally nothing you can't ask. I'm completely comfy with it, so you can be too. I won't say I am an open book because that is cliché. Instead, I will say that I am a slut spread eagle on the bed awaiting your questions with anticipation. 😉

• I do not know how to vanilla at all.

• I don't play with people under 27 on a one-on-one basis.

• Voice play is highly preferred. Even if you cannot talk, being able to listen and use my moans against me matters. Text-only doesn't do it for me.

• I mostly sub, and when I do Domme, specific people bring it out of me. If we haven't interacted, I will be very unlikely to want to Domme you.

• I work for an NFL team and will aggressively argue that my city is the best in the world. Because it is.

• I am too intense for some, but I am all love. I promise!