Keyword being convince? What comes after that I suppose depends on how well it works. I very rarely get naturally horny, so I'd like to see what happens to my desires if my libido and interest can improve.

I'm somewhat looking for a Dominant, somewhat not. My fantasies range from casual groping to TPE Master level kink. I do need someone who is a real person and not just a horny guy whose going to DM every random account dirty tasks. I'm looking for someone I can respect and speak with regularly. Both voice chat and texting throughout the day. I'm not interested in exchanging pictures or a lot of typical online D/s tricks and fancies. At the same time I think I'm also interested in more dynamics and kinks than most.

A few dealbreakers: Very much a "please you first" sub, and highly uninterested in service tops. My ideal Dominant is someone I can please naturally by existing and obeying - which requires someone who knows both what what they want and how to get it. Also uninterested in orgasm focused play, focusing on denying them is one thing but I'm unreliable and take a long time to reach the edge, and twice as long with others so it's just disappointing when I meet people who treat my orgasm as the end all be all goal.

I'm under the sub umbrella but lately haven't been interested in obedience - not a brat, think more vanilla with paradoxically hardcore kinks. I'm hoping that edging and denial might get me from my standard semi asexuality into someone who actually gets something out of submission. The docile, eager to please, submissive trifecta sounds an appealing mindset to be in - I just haven't met anyone I respect enough or am interested in enough to get to that point for.

If you're interested, please send me a voice clip via vocaroo or similar site and something to set you apart from the swarm