I appreciate everyone’s advice! We discussed last night and we will be implementing a few small steps into denial to see how I react to it! I am really excited. I’m also a tiny bit nervous because I’m used to an orgasm almost every day. So we’re starting with small steps!

1 - Each week, I’ll have 2 days of edging & denial leading up to our Friday maintenance sessions. I’ll need to edge 1-2 times each morning and each evening during that time. (The goal will be to build up from 2 days pretty quickly, but we’re starting out easy!)

2 - Denial will be a consequence for missing my required monthly Night of Service. This must be provided each month. If the month ends and I haven’t provided one, I will be in denial until I’ve provided it.

3 - Denial will be used as a consequence for some of our more serious rules. Specially being respectful and wearing my ownership items. Multiple infractions in a week will lead to me being put on ‘anal only’. While on ‘anal only’, I will need to provide anal (or oral if requested) at any time. I will not be allowed to come. We will start out with those lasting only a couple days but hopefully can build up from there!

4 - We’ll also be trying out denial as incentive. He can require me to edge a certain number of times and then give him oral or anal. I’ll only be allowed to cum afterwards if I pleasure him well enough. (This idea makes me so 🥵).

Please comment with some benefits to being denied! I need to keep my motivation up lol. And my new mantra….

GOOD…. GIRLS…. DON’T…. CUM….