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So I want to say this to begin with, I have no problem with chubby, BBW or gay men fat admirers. As a BHM, I have my own preferences and I’m attracted to body contrast. I like smaller, slim, average or muscular built women. Since joining this community over a year and half ago, I’ve noticed that the smaller women that like big guys are in a relationship already and with someone that isn’t in the community or isn’t even big at all. But they are on these forums and sites, looking to admire big guys because they are either in an open relationship or their partner isn’t big and they have to get their fix somehow. I have no issue with this, it’s their lives and they can do what they want. In the year and half I’ve been in the community, I’ve gotten more attention from chubby women, BBW or gay men. Again, I have no problem with chubby women, BBW or gay men, I’m just more interested in smaller women. I have yet to see or interact with a slim, average or muscular FFA. And I don’t live in a small town, I’m in the Dallas/Fort Worth Texas area, so it’s not a small area, it’s a large metroplex, in a big state of the USA. I’m sure they are out there, because I see all these post on Reddit of smaller FFAs having fun with their BHM. Am I ugly? I mean I know I’m a bigger guy(436lbs) but I’ve always thought I was cute at least and I’m not lazy or anything like that. I’m 37, I have my Bachelor’s degree, I have a good job(Network Engineer) and I have my own place and car. I’m not sitting at my computer desk all day, watching p0rn or playing video games. I just want to find someone to love and for them to love me back. So, I ask yall again, do slim, average or muscular women actually want a BHM like me or am I just a closeted fetish that is hidden away and I’m destined to be alone?
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