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28 [M4F] #NY #NYC #NJ Nerdy Sub Femboy In Search Of Fun Nerdy Dom Long Term!
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sublenn96 is a male age 28 looking for a female in New York
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So gonna have this broken up into a few sections between SFW aspects and NSFW aspects, right off the bat a couple key notes I dont smoke and I drink very little also looking for someone nearby like within an hour or so of driving and hoping to meet soon like within a month of talking. I am looking for something serious. I'm not looking for a 24/7 kink dynamic, in the bed room we ideally would be sub/dom respectively but outside of that it'd be more teasing and playful natured but she would be making final decisions on things (also at times I'm not decisive so her having final say kinda just helps me)

SFW Me: To start I'm 28 (this month to be 29 within a few days) I'm about 5'6, 130lbs with long brown hair so more or less a twink who does enjoy crossdressing for fun and also I also enjoy feeling cute but more on that later. Currently I work a full time and part time job but in the middle of career switching just looking for a new job. I live on my own and can drive. As stated I'm a nerd I love gaming, anime, manga, history, tech and collectibles like figures and statues. I do also enjoy building gundam models and small metal earth figures. My favorite anime would be akame ga kill (esdeath is my favorite!), favorite game easily Metal Gear Solid, I dont have a particular preference between marvel and DC stuff but I do think I lean a little to marvel. I am heavy on PC gaming but do have consoles. I do also find some fantasy stuff cool like vampires, but say less twilight type vampires and somewhere sort of like Supernatural type. I would love to get into cosplay and airsoft so having someone willing to do that with me would be awesome, I do currently have some airsoft gear and I also have a couple cosplays as well. Outside of nerdy stuff I in general love animals I dont have a preference between cats and dogs though I've only ever had dogs but as of late now living on my own have considered getting a cat. I'm very laid back and easy going, I very much believe in open honest communication in a relationship and think compromise is a must. I firmly believe that a relationship needs to be 50/50, it's a partnership so both parties should take equal responsibility. I'm also the type to be a goof kinda like jarjar binks so sometimes accident prone and other times just a goof intending on getting a laugh out of everyone around even if its the occasional out of the box dark humor. I do also see sharing interests with one another as a love language, I'd want us to share our different and mutual interests with one another as I see interests as something that makes us who we are and to disregard your partners interests is to disregard them as a person. As stated I do also enjoy crossdressing a bit, it's not something I do publicly and very few people know that I do it. I'm open to the idea of possibly going out dressed up but that's if I feel comfortable doing so. Currently I just enjoy feeling cute and feminine, I will wear dresses and other outfits for nonsexual reasons. I am totally into the idea of us coordinating outfits whether thats for kink play or just us both being cute with each other. I am open to and have tried experimenting with makeup, hoping to get better at it. Other then all that I'm far more of a romantic, I'm the type who would much rather cook you dinner and enjoy a nice night together rather then just jump to pervy stuff. I guess to end this section what I bring to the table is that I'm loyal, honest and dedicated, I'm more then happy to cook and clean. Im the type who would much rather talk an issue over rather then fight for something stupid, I try to be considerate of my partners feelings and always try to help even if I really cant. I'm also very much the cuddly type.

SFW What I'm Looking For: I would very much prefer someone whose near by within NYC roughly an hour drive so whether that's in NY, PA or NJ I dont mind driving just within roughly an hour give or take. I am hoping to talk for a bit and hopefully meet up within a months time I dont want to be online dating long term though. I'm hoping to find someone around my age. I'm also hoping to find someone easy going, open minded and willing to compromise. As I previously stated I would love and hoping to find someone whose also a nerd and enjoys geeky things like anime and gaming. I've always had a thing for tomboys, or tough girls in general, height isn't a problem for me but I do prefer partners who are on the thinner side. I would love for someone who is equally easy going that i joke around with and just enjoys having a good time. I prefer partners who are willing to put in equal effort into the relationship and find compromise to make both happy. Politically I'm more of a centrist and would very much prefer someone who doesn't have a heavy lean but is more closer to the center at minimum. Of course would prefer a partner who either encourages my interests in feminine things or even enjoys engaging in it. I am monogamous so having someone whose also the same would be preferable as well. I think short summary I'm looking for an easy going girl who may be on the tougher side but also a geek who would be cool with a crossdressing nerd for a boyfriend thats willing to share and engage in each other hobbies and interests, it would also be a must that they're willing to communicate issues and work together to find compromises.

NSFW Me: I'm a rookie with kink though I have toys like bondage cuffs, arm binders, leash and collars, flesh lights, lovesense plugs, blindfold, ball gags and waist and bed restraints but outside of that I dont have a lot of experience and want to explore kink further. I dont want the sub/dom play to be 24/7, like definitely follow sub/dom roles in the bed room but out of it would be more teasing and playful with her making final decisions on things. My kinks off the bat would be bondage, latex/leather, leash and collar, pet play, JOI, chastity, very very light public play (stuff like wearing my chastity cage or have a remote plug in for my partner to tease me with), body writing, outfit play, training and punishment and pegging to name a few off hand that i can think by name. I do love wearing and also see my partner in either latex/leather type outfits but also tighter form fitting outfits are also attractive, I also have a thing for tights and skirts. I do enjoy crossdressing during play which also falls into outfit play, basically like being my partners maid or maybe I'd dress as a school girl and wear something skimpy either being cute or slutty for fun. I love knowing that my partner likes seeing me dressed up but I also love seeing my partner dressed as well so coordinating would be fun! When it comes to kink play I have a sway sort of, like sometimes I get really worked up and want to just be dominated and helpless and controlled maybe even a little punishment and sometimes I just simply love being cute and collared and treated cuddly and pervy. Little things do also add to turn on for me outside of outfits, like sucking my partners fingers or swallowing spit even something like seeing my partner with a more serious expression is a turn on for me. I do also love having my partner on top of me whether thats pinning me down or even just on top when we kiss. Kind of going into bondage I love in general being held, pinned and even tied up over all love the feeling of being helpless and under her control ( I might have a little bit of a weird bullying kink now that I think of it but not 100% on that). I would say my limits in terms of kink would be findom of any kind, cbt, sounding, anything resulting in excessive bleeding.

NSFW What I'm Looking For: So would love a partner whose happy to be the dominate one, in the bedroom fully in control but out of it more just playful. Maybe I bend over and she squeezes my butt to tease me that sort of thing. As I said I'm looking to explore kink so having someone willing to try different things together would be awesome. I very lean heavily on the submissive side so having her completely in control and dominant during play is a big one for me. I'd love for my partner to be able to switch between a little on the rough side and also on the gentle and would also enjoy having me on a leash and under her control. I dont have a lot of experience so a lot of what i said in the previous section is gonna be relevant here I think over all I want someone who would be more willing to be equally flexible with kink and willing to help me explore further.

Overall: I'm hoping to find something serious, long term and monogamous with someone near by who is into geeky stuff like gaming and manga that's cool with a boyfriend who loves crossdressing and wants to be her good little sub. Someone who is easy going, laid back and can take but also give jokes. Willing to compromise and work out differences and communicate. If you have questions on any points of interest that i may have missed or this post interests you please send me either a chat request or message and I will get back to you as soon as I can (cause some times reddit is dumb and doesn't notify me). PLEASE start with something like a question in regards to this post or a little bit about yourself, it's hard to just start a conversation with "Hey" or "Hi" on their own. Please also be within reasonable distance of NY either in it or close too.

With this said thank you so much for reading to this point, hope to hear from you soon!

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