I’ve grown tired of wading through incompatible people on dating apps, so we are giving this a shot. 🤷

About me:

I’m 27M, and I’ve just moved to the DC area to start a new job as an analyst for a consulting firm. Appearance-wise I am 5’9 with a slim-fit physique, fluffy medium-length hair and blueish greenish eyes. I have a light skin tone and am clean shaven. Here are some pictures of me:

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Outside of work I enjoy Drawing (love to draw, as me about my art), walking/running/hiking, and watching movies and shows.

What I’m looking for:

I am exclusively interested in a monogamous long-term relationship with a compatible partner. I enjoy being dominated in a loving and gentle way. I love the idea of being controlled because you care about me, and naturally also because I want to serve you. I am rather obedient and not very bratty. I’d prefer a partner in my age range ~22-32. I currently live in the DC area and am only interested in people who live nearby. Unfortunately, I am not interested in doing long-distance or online, so location is a dealbreaker.

Kinks:
I want to preface this by saying that at this point I am open-minded and willing to attempt a lot of different things. Naturally, I do have some red lines as well, but don’t assume that just because I don’t discuss something below that means I wouldn’t enjoy or try it with you. Keep in mind I am new to exploring BDSM and there’s a lot out there that I’m still blissfully unaware of. I cannot emphasize enough that I will do my absolute best to accommodate as many of your desires as possible.

Bondage:
New to BDSM but I love the idea of being restrained, it’s central to all of my desires. I’d be interested in any ideas you might have to get more creative on this front. 

Facesitting:
I like to give oral. Straddle my neck and enjoy yourself.

Breathplay:
Really just blood chokes and smothering. Keep it tame as this one can be dangerous.

“Wrestling”? Play: 
Not sure exactly how to describe this one because it isn’t exactly a mainstream kink with a name, it’s almost like a borderline vanilla activity with dom/sub undertones. Think of it as akin to “aggressive cuddling” or like an approximation of bondage without the use of tools. What I’m trying to convey is basically that I like to be physically dominated. This also works great as foreplay and in combination with bondage (i.e. wrestle me down, then tie me up when you win. Or you can bind my limbs together first then enjoy the ease of subduing me with that handicap) Basically, hold me tight, put pressure on me, and pin me down. I will be happy. 

If you feel like we would be a good match, feel free to message me with a brief introduction. Please also include some pictures of yourself, as I did so up front.