I'm ideally looking for a serious relationship with a man who is also a sub. After looking and failing to find anyone on apps and kink sites I've come here to hopefully find the right match. Only respond if you are serious and meet all my requirements. Please read carefully.

About me I'm 23. Born and raised in the UK. I'd describe myself as attractive, medium height, a natural blonde. I exercise a lot to keep fit and spend time at the gym most days. My ass is my best feature and I work hard for it. I work as an area manager for a well known cosmetics company. I'd rather not reveal any more about that. I love all animals, especially dogs and cats. I don't drink alcohol very often. I would say I have a fairly good sense of humour which I hope you could match. I'm based in the South East England. I currently live in a shared house with two others.

What I am looking for I would like an long term relationship with a man aged between 19 - 30. If you are a bit older I may still consider you if you are lucky. Please no one above 45. You must be either based in South East UK, or being willing to relocate here. You may travel to visit me here at first, but I will probably not be interested in travelling for you.

I would like a conventional relationship however you must also be my willing to serve me as your Domme almost all of the time. This is a MUST for me. And please know I am NOT a switch and will never be your sub.

As my sub I would like to mould you into my perfect partner. You will look to please me at every opportunity. I will expect you to keep as fit and active as I am. I expect six pack abs and strong arms. If you are not fit or active at the moment, that doesn't matter, your training routine will be part of your submission. I expect you to have a job and be earning an income. What you do and how much you earn doesn't matter to me that much, as long as you have a stable income. I have a very high sex drive, and expect to be satisfied how I choose regularly. The rest of the time you should always want to obey me, and allow me to dress you, order you around, and care for you as I please. I will provide lots of care, love, and attention, but I expect a very high standard in return.

Your ethnicity doesn't matter to me. Your height doesn't matter to me (although I prefer you were taller than me, I'm 5'5), your dick size doesn't matter to me, your sexual experience also doesn't matter to me.

My kinks interests Leather, latex, whipping, light pain, pegging, ass play, light CBT, heels, CFNM, orgasm control, denial.

Possible Interests: chastity cages, forced exhibitionism, fucking other men in front of you.

Limits: sissies/feminisation, findom (I don't want your money, but the occasional gifts are nice)

Why do I want a sub relationship, and what is the benefit for you? To be honest, I like being in control. I prefer things being done my way and I am attracted to men who are willing to listen and do as I say. My kinks are very obedience based and I don't imagine myself lasting long in a relationship without that.

For you, even though I expect you to be my sub most of the time, I like to believe I am reasonable about it. I would not ask any more of you than I would think you were capable of giving. Also I would still very much care for you and show you affection. Part of the reason I would expect a strict excercise routine from you is so you can be a partner I can be proud of and more attracted to. I would always be faithful to you, and would promise not to explore any dynamics with other subs without your permission first.

Next steps If any of what I have described seems like it is also what you are looking for, you are single, and you meet my specified requirements, please respectably contact me with your age, location, and a reason of why you believe you could be the sub for me/me the Domme for you. If you do not provide this information in your opening messages than don't expect me to respond. If I feel like we click, I'll tell you more about myself and maybe we can arrange something more.