Hey there,

I’m a 23-year-old switch from the Netherlands, and I’m looking for a domme who’s ready to absolutely ruin me (in the best possible way). My profile says I’m a dom looking for a sub, but let’s be real—I’m totally a sucker for a confident, strong domme who knows how to take control. Right now, I’m craving my sub side to be pushed to the limit, and I’m ready to submit to someone who knows how to take full advantage of it.

Who Am I? • A busy student with a not-so-perfect life (but I make it work). • Single, unattached, and free to focus all my attention on you. • Into deep connection, trust, and open communication—because that’s what makes it so much more exciting.

What Gets Me Going: I love everything hot and intense—edging, JOI, orgasm control, tease and denial, tasks, risky play, and forced orgasms. Pushing me to my limits until I can’t take it anymore? Yes, please.

Also, just to add a little something extra—I’ve got a soft spot for clean-shaven armpits. There’s just something about the way they look that makes it impossible for me to resist. It’s one of those little things that gets me really going when it’s part of the whole dynamic.

Hard No’s (Because I’m Not That Crazy): 🚫 Extreme public play (I have some limits) 🚫 Sending pics right away (let’s build trust first) 🚫 Knife play, blood, scat—those are real hard no’s for me

I’m all about mutual respect and fun while keeping things safe and consensual, but I’m also here to push boundaries in a way that feels oh-so good.

What I’m Looking For in a Domme: • Confidence is key. I want someone who knows exactly what she wants and is not afraid to take charge. • A great communicator. I love when a domme is clear about her boundaries, needs, and desires—and I’ll do the same. Communication is everything. • A mix of control, playfulness, and intensity. I crave both the psychological and physical aspects of a power dynamic—teasing, testing limits, and knowing when to push harder. • Someone who enjoys taking her time with me, building up that tension and making every moment count. Patience can make things so much hotter. • A shared love of exploring both mental and physical boundaries, with plenty of room for experimentation. Whether it’s edging, teasing, or something a little more risky, I’m open to seeing where the connection takes us. • Ideally in the same timezone (CET) or a few hours off, so we can enjoy some real-time play without waiting days between sessions.

If you’re ready to take full control and make me regret all my decisions, slide into my DMs. I’m ready to surrender to someone who knows how to keep me on my knees, both mentally and physically.

Oh and just to confirm you read the whole post please let me know your favorite color of lingerie to wear ☺️.