I'm Gretchen, nice to meet you. I've posted here before and thought l'd found my slave a couple of different times, but for one reason or another it hasn't worked out. So l'm back to see if my elusive slave is out there.

A little about me. I am married and in an open marriage. He will gladly verify that with you if needed. I'm pansexual, but right now I'm more interested in a male slave. I am a sports nerd. I love watching football, baseball and hockey. I also love to read, listen to podcasts...mainly about history...and all kinds of music. Though my favorite band is the Foo Fighters. I listen to lots of country too. I love to travel and have luckily been all over the US and also different countries. My favorite US spot is Boston and my favorite international one is New Zealand. I am 5'4 1/2" tall, have brown hair, hazel eyes and I wear glasses. I am a larger woman. There is a picture of me on my profile. I have an all natural bush. I know that's a turn on for some and a turn off for others, so I like to be upfront, since that's not changing and you may see me naked one day.

I am open to a lot of things when it comes to kinks. I like masculine men and feminine ones. I like men who will dress up for me if l ask, and ones that do it because they love to. I enjoy controlling orgasms, and using cages. But locking your cock up is not a requirement. I enjoy the trust it takes to control your orgasm from afar. I am not too good at degradation, I'm more of a nurturer. I may call you a slut or whore, but it's said more in a teasing and caring way. I really am looking for a slave to get to know. Not just in a kinky, sexual way, but really get to know you. I want to be someone you can lean on if you need to. Knowing I'll be there for you and care for you. Really think about that before you message. Because a lot of men have said that's what they want, but it then just ends up being all sexual and trying to turn me into a kink dispenser. Which I am not.

Something that I’ve learned is that I really want impact play. I want to hurt you, then care for you after. I want to mark you with an ownership tattoo, when we get to that point. I want to peg you, whenever the mood strikes me. I truly want a live in slave, someone who is into being a service slave, and wants to be loved and cared for too. Kinks l'm not into are animals, skat and anal when it comes to me.

I am looking for someone near me in Wisconsin or someone who is willing to relocate if things go well. If any of this sounds interesting to you, go ahead and drop me a chat message on here. If things go further we can change to texting or using another app to communicate. I will try to reply to all of the requests I get, but it really depends if I’m overwhelmed with them, whether I can or not.