A lovely fellow kinkster friend of mine told me to try a personal to find someone, so here I am…

Quick Summary: Looking for a romantic wholesome long term relationship with an intimate kink dynamic. Ideally some form of FLR, but more of an emotional and romantic connection with that special someone is what I’m looking for. Struggling to make online friendships into dates and a relationship, but would love to make that a reality.

About Me: Hello I’m Phoenix (not my real name), 27 year old submissive guy from the Southwest of UK. I have medium length light-brown hair, blue-green eyes, average body (hairy body) and height-wise I’m five foot ten.

Personality: I’m an introvert-extrovert, so I like to play the shy card. But really I’m just comfortable in more intimate settings and a listener rather than a talker. I’d say I’m calm and gentle, being a cute and sweet type of guy. A homebody at heart preferring blankets, cuddles and hot beverages then socialising. Love adventure, days out and can socialise, though may need time to recharge after.

Hobbies: Currently travelling Central Europe and reading history articles/books, while visiting many places to learn more about history. Mostly WW2 history, but I do like lots of other parts of history. Also listening to Cutouts album by The Smile. My favourite film is Donnie Darko as it just has this psychological thriller vibe and coming-of-age story, that has just pulled me into its world from the first time I watched it. I’d be really happy chatting about any of these and also talk about specific places I’ve been, learned about and hopefully where you’ve been.

Who am I searching for SFW: A Monogamous, Single and Loyal partner. Lives in UK or able to meet in-person, so someone close to my location in the South of England would be ideal. between the ages of 22 and 32. Someone to hold my hand; gently led intimacy; make me feel safe; makes me smile everyday; is a cozy big spoon; someone trustworthy who understands my trust is earned, not given; kind, caring and supportive.

Who am I searching for NSFW: A dominant-leaning partner. I have a preference for a Gentle Domme style, but I’m open to someone with another style. Experience preferred or currently practising BDSM would show me an active commitment. If you’re more Vanilla that is fine, I just need someone who’s Safe, Sane and Consensual knows how to create a safe scene or learn how to. Someone that understands aftercare.

Recently Learned about my NSFW desires: Recently learned I can be a bit of a brat sometimes, so I guess you’ve been warned, but I’d say I’m just more playful and teasing haha. Also that I may have a Little/Middle side which is a surprise to me from being quite masculine and having a quite dark humour sense of humour. But I might be interested in exploring a MDlb dynamic. So lots to explore and think about as maybe the picture on here suggests this side of me that I just never put it together haha

My Femdom Preference: My favourite kinks are Gentle Femdom, Ownership, Orgasm (Collaring), Control, Bondage (Sensory Deprivation), Pleasure Service, Worship and Creative Roleplay. Hard Limits: Vomit, Blood, Needles, Permanent Mark, any Toilet Play and Not Respecting my Boundaries!

My Preferred D/s dynamic: A wholesome long-term relationship built on openness, honesty and communication with a kinky edge. A Female-Led/Relationship (FLR) would be ideal, but I’m definitely open to more types of dynamics from D/s Lovers to more strict dynamics. The more romantic and affectionate connection and relationship the better. Not an Online Dynamic or Relationship! My previous D/s Experience: I tried online dynamics for a while and my first (and only) relationship had a D/s dynamic, so I’d say I have experience, but not experienced (low body count). I’ve been single for over 6 months now and looking to learn and explore more.

What I can provide: I happy sharing my day with messages and pictures. Being open and honest communicating how I’m feeling. An eager listener to understand my partner as a person and creating a supportive safe space for us both to feel at home with each other. I can drive to travel for meets. Always open to suggestions and understanding of my partners needs and desires (SFW and NSFW). Happy to expand my (or our) toy collection. Try’s to make you happy and laugh everyday.

Me: https://imgur.com/2OB7YB3 Happy to share my face (and real name) after I trust you and feel comfortable to do so. Please respect my privacy. But I’m happy for you to have a look at my profile and look around, maybe see if you’d be interested

I’m looking to get to know someone this weekend. If interested please put some effort into your message, especially if you don’t have a post or comment history. One sentence responses will be ignored, sorry. Any questions or more you want to know about me please feel free to ask, thank you.