I posted this on the lovense discord this morning. I am editing some for reddit.

Good morning! I would like to start a conversation with a woman who enjoys being in control. I have lovense toys you can take direct control of, and others you can tell me what to do. If you are a switch that's great too, I want us both to have fun. Remote toys are great fun and all, but the best part is connecting with you, giving you control, and letting you have fun making me do whatever amuses you. It's fun talking to women who are just starting to explore being dominant, and it's exciting when you know what you want right from the start. Either way is fun.

I have suggestions, things that I know I enjoy being "forced" to do. Just talking about some of them would be exciting, make me blush, and probably give you something to laugh about. It's exciting telling you things like that, hoping that maybe you will want to make me do some of them, even though it's going to be embarrassing and difficult if you actually do. Like, it's fun to talk about having to eat my cum, but then at some point I will be stuck with a handful of cum that I actually have to eat It's exciting to talk about wearing my gush under my clothes out in public, but when you make me do it I will be so nervous and embarrassed. I have a fantasy about you wanting to give me nothing but denial and ruined orgasms for several days, just to see how frustrated and needy I get for you. I also love the idea of being trained and conditioned to get off on some new humiliating kink, the fantasy comes from a crush of mine saying she was going to "convert" me to her interest in foot fetish stuff.

My DMs are always open. Lets start a conversation. Talk that isn't about sex is also welcome, it's more exciting when it's not just sex. It's also more embarrassing saying and doing these things with someone who isn't a total anonymous online stranger, even if we just talked about movies and music and such. It feels more real that way.