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I'm a 35-year old guy from the Netherlands, living in the Randstad area. And to be honest, I'm pretty lonely! After a long period of trying to use dating apps without much in the way of success, I've thought of where else I can try my luck and have decided to take to Reddit.

There's honestly not much I ask for in a relationship - just some shared hobbies/interests. This can be difficult however, because I'm autistic, which results in... well, me not having many different interests, as I prefer to put all my time into a smaller amount rather than spreading myself thin. A big one recently has been kink - I found out I'm pretty submissive years ago, but have not yet been able to put this into practice in a relationship.

That being said, I do have some experience on a more casual level, and being autistic does come with its perks on this front - I consider myself much more devoted than most, and I'm also an extremely fast learner. Just explain something to me once and I'll most likely be able to remember it perfectly from then on. I know that despite the lack of experience I do consider this quite important, so I am hoping to meet someone dominant or a switch. Feel free to ask for specific kinks, as I have quite a few - though bondage, domestic servitude and chastity are a couple.

Outside of kink, my interests primarily include gaming, anime, animals, nature and essentially anything related to Japan. I've been there four times and I'd recommend anyone else to go as well, it's well worth the effort! If you're even the slightest bit nerdy/geeky or also have a love for Japan I think we'd get along very well.

Appearance-wise I am Caucasian (born in the Netherlands), 183cm tall, with black hair and brown eyes. I'm perfectly willing to send a picture of my face but I'd prefer to do that via DM/chat, so just ask for it if you want one.

I consider myself open to a lot (from something casual to something long-term), and would love to hear from anybody who's even remotely interested in me. I should mention I'm not interested in exclusively keeping things online - I'd like to meet up irl eventually, so it would be nice if you live in the same country or at least elsewhere in Europe. If I meet someone super special I'd be open to making things work even across a longer distance, so if you feel that we would match well but you live across the ocean, feel free to send a DM or chat message and introduce yourself! And more than just a "hey" would be pretty nice.

I'd prefer to meet people around my own age, maybe 26-43. If you think we'd be a good match and you're just outside that range however feel free to send a message too!

PS: Ik spreek ook Nederlands, natuurlijk!