I’m masculine-presenting out of the bedroom, but in bed I happily defer to you and your desires as I worship you. As a submissive man, my focus is on lifting you up, pleasing you, and being your submissive good boy.

I’ve long preferred hanging out with women, and I’m a strong feminist. I believe women are superior in several ways, including sexually. I love oral worship because your orgasms and sexuality are awe inspiring, and I want to do whatever I can to help insure your pleasure potential is fully realized.

In service of maximizing your satisfaction, I prefer to limit my orgasms, which allows me to be hard and ready for you at all times (if you want that), and always eager to put my head in your lap and lick you for hours. I also love to use toys.

I’m open to other dynamics than just worship and my orgasm-free lifestyle.

About me: I’ve never been gym-rat, but I spent much of my life working out. I have a muscular build that’s a bit hidden by a dad-bod as I work on fixing some elbow issues. I’m 5’8” and have long multicolored hair (most people say I’m blond, but there a lot of grey and brown in there)

I’m active in the sex positive community and have hosted or facilitated events for several years (mostly non-sexual ones). I love reading (mostly non-fiction), cooking (bonus if you like spicy food), photography, hiking, traveling (day trips and overseas), my motorcycle (I promise it’s not loud and annoying, and you don’t have to get on if you don’t want to).

I’ve been ENM nearly my entire life and I’m very compersive.

Who I’m seeking: I love a strong woman, but I don’t expect you to be strong all the time. I’m interested in a gentle FemDom FLR type thing, but it’s not a requirement. I prefer someone smaller than me (which makes being dominated by you just that much hotter). Good communication skills are awesome.

I live by myself and can host in Oakland.

Locals only, please no Pro Dommes