I live in Northern Seattle (20 min from downtown), looking for a long-term relationship with femdom included, probably most of the time, as long as it does not impact my work or working out (in a negative way). I've never had BDSM dynamic in a relationship, so I may have some limits that I do not know about.

5'5, 125 pounds and have 2 cats. I do long distance running which keeps me pretty lean, but in good shape (used to do triathlons, want to get back into that eventually). hobbies include chess, jigsaw puzzles, reading, hiking, and some gaming. I work a night shift (remote work from home), probably for the next 2 years or so. I don't do social media outside of reddit.

I'm a pretty introverted person (plus social anxiety). I'm incredibly honest, empathetic, communicative, and do a decent amount of research before forming opinions on things. I do not get mad and I communicate my thoughts and feelings to resolve conflicts peacefully. I'm an eager learner and take interest into a wide variety of topics over time.

I want a completely monogamous relationship (age range 24 to 36? maybe /- 1 or 2 years), preferably someone that also shares a passion for running/hiking or co-op gaming/mmos (hoping ashes of creation doesn't flop). Must also be financially stable and child-free (prefer to also not want kids because of the lifestyle).

Someone open to pegging, rope bondage, feminization, etc. would be ideal for sexual compatibility. I can be stubborn so I guess punishments would be welcome & required in a playful way. I LOVE cuddling & being cuddled. I have some anxiety, but if you want to do these things to me early on and don't mind if I'm nervous as hell and shy, then I'm okay with that (definitely will need a safe-word but I'm not sure how it will work with a gag).

Off-limits/deal breakers:

* no smoking/drugs (weed is okay)

* scat/piss

* poly/open relationship/cuckold

* cheating

* humiliation/degradation

* pain/mutilation

* public (unless discrete like chastity cage, butt plug, etc.)

Beyond that, let's chat and see where things go :)