Hi there! I'm Deer. Thanks for checking out my ad!

Me

• Age: 30
  
• Location: Sweden, Stockholm area
• Appearance: Average (rather lean) body, healthy weight, not a lot of muscles. I go to the gym. Happy to exchange verification pictures in private, after a conversation!
• Language: English. I know some German and I'm learning svenska, but that needs a lot of time in the oven still.  

Personality-wise, I'm nerdy, creative, open-minded, empathetic, respectful. In my working life I'm an engineer working in green energy. Outside of that, I have a ton of interests and not enough time. I'm in a book club. I love films. I love analyses of films (and other stuff!). I'm learning drawing, sometimes I write short stories, sometimes I go bouldering, sometimes I roleplay. Politics, the environment and social justice are important issues to me, and hopefully to you too.

What I'm looking for:

The ~dream~ would be to find a long-term romantic partner who is also dominant, hence the title. Failing that, someone to build a d/s relationship together, where we are friends in addition to being play partners. I'm definitely not looking for one-off texting. I want something long term, where we both grow and support each other, with clear communication about where we are at and what we want from the relationship and from each other.

I want to get to know you, and submit to you, the real you. I have a fondness for nerdy and opinionated women, but I find that almost everyone is interesting when they aren't afraid to show themselves. So please do!

Age-wise, I'm mostly interested in people around 23-37, but am flexible depending on the person and dynamic type. I'd rather not have an online only relationship, so we have to live reasonably close to each other, now or in the future. (This can be relaxed for more casual dynamics.) I'm not opposed to a future relocation. Besides that, just don't be conservative.

My kinks

Power exchange, personal service, body worship, orgasm control, roleplay, bondage are all things I'm interested it. This is not an exhaustive list; as always, what's hot depends on the other person and our particular dynamic. I'm very open to try new stuff with a trusted partner. My preference is for gentle domination, but something more intense is on the cards. Again, with a trusted partner and good communication, lots of doors are open.

Limits: Scat, blood, illegal stuff, stuff that marks (cuts, etc.), cuckoldry, age play, "hard" humiliation as opposed to playful. Generally the harder kinks.

Ok but do I have experience?

No, not really. I've had a tiny bit of experience but it was online only. That said, I've done my research, I've been in kink communities (both online and offline), have kinky friends, and generally consider myself reasonably knowledgeable, certainly enough to practice kink safely and with consideration for my theoretical partner.

Aaaand that's it. Thanks for reading all that if you came that far. I honestly appreciate it. If you're interested, feel free to send a PM and say hi! Please include a short intro about yourself (ASL, etc.), what exactly you are looking for, and something that you're currently passionate/thinking a lot about.

Have a great day and I hope you all find what you're looking for!