I’m looking to date someone with the hope of a long-term relationship. I tried monogamy and polyamory in the past, and definitely looking for a monogamous or monogam-ish relationship. I like being someone’s primary partner, falling in love, and all the cliches that go along with it.

So why post on Femdomme Personals? I know that kink and BDSM is an important part of my personality. I consider myself a submissive leaning switch, so can get into both sides of the slash. I want to explore it with a partner that is equally into it and gets excited to try new things together. And if we know that we align in those way to start, we can focus on forming a connection first and know the rest will come in time. If you want to talk about specific kinks we can, since it’s quite fun to do, but I’m more focused at first about what you are like and if we vibe.

As for more about me, I’m kind of nerdy but no single interest defines my personality. I’m into playing board games and get together weekly with friends to do it. Social deduction games are quickly becoming a favorite as well! Sushi is one of my favorite foods, and will gladly split my meal with you at a restaurant to try more things. Love seeing standup in Chicago. Going to concerts when a favorite band is in town. I’ll line up early to get in the front row sometimes.

For TV and movie favorites I enjoy comedies and drama, but not much of a binge watcher. My style of humor is more like The Office and Nathan For You, with a serialized drama thrown in the mix if it’s really good. I’d add MCU to the list, but I’ve been losing interest recently with hope they can turn things around. My idea of a nice vacation is going to someplace warm in the winter to escape this Chicago weather, an amusement park, or going to Vegas and seeing all the Cirque du Soleil shows and a concert at The Sphere. Please don’t ask me to go camping! Haha

I want to see your face glow with excitement as you tell me about your own interests. Talk on the phone before bed to catch up on each other’s day if we are apart. Go to the city and enjoy great food together, taking bites of the same thing together so we know we’re experiencing the same flavors. And then head home at the end of the night and have fun exploring each other’s fantasies!

Send me a message if you’re interested.