Hello lovelies...

Stranger in a strange land, seeking companion(s) to find our way out. Or maybe deeper in?

To be honest, I am a little lost...not quite midlife crisis lost because all things considered I have most of it figured out. Great job, love where I live, not super social but some good friends. But something is missing. Something both intangible and tangible (whisper in my ear, touch my neck while doing it). I have always had my own direction and now I am looking to follow someone else's lead. What does my goddess need and want...let me make that happen :).

I am looking for a gentle. firm, reassuring, kinky goddess. Pleasure oriented...YOURS obviously, but mine too, under your control and direction. Love tasks (vanilla and otherwise). Love encouragement (vanilla and otherwise). Love being pushed forward (vanilla and otherwise). Vanilla Interests: Art museums, Botanical Gardens, generally being outdoors, live music, music in general, pizza, espresso, learning new things. On the intimate side: mild chastity, joi ( I simply melt from dirty talk), tease and denial, p*ssy worship, orgasm control, c*ck control, light bondage, possibly low key feminization (I'd have to discuss this more but something like dressing up is piquing my curiosity). Not into/limits: degradation, humiliation (although in an intimate setting maybe a little between just us. A scenario that ends with reassurance and pleasure perhaps, certainly nothing public), cuckolding, pain, scat/pee etc.

I am generally open to exploration with the right person and I want to make you happy so we could talk about stuff. I am sapiosexual first and foremost so...age, body type, ethnicity are not all that important. I will be into your mind and your confidence before anything else.

Ideally I am looking for local Socal/Orange County but open to Online. I am not a complete newb, but it always seems like there is some unspoken "rule" that gets broken and things fall apart. I don't know what to say about that, I try to be as authentic as I can. I am really looking for consistent communication. It doesn't feel great to get ghosted.

Well, if you lasted this long...THANKS! If you feel compelled to message me feel free. I hope you do :)