You need a sub who truly desires to please you. You need someone who knows that women’s sexuality is vastly superior to men’s. You need a guy who is obsessed with your pleasure and your orgasms. You need a partner who craves giving up his own sexual pleasure in order to maximize yours.

I need a domme who will put me to work with on-demand oral service, breast worship, using toys to get you off, or ridding my cock while forbidding me to cum (or wearing a cock sheath so I don’t feel anything as I get to watch you cum)

Witnessing my partner in the throes of pleasure is far more sexually gratifying for me than having my own sorry orgasm. I love being left aroused and unsatisfied so it can feed my desire to please you even more.

With that in mind, I’m looking for someone I can connect with in other ways. I’m adventurous, active, and fun. I love to travel and see/experience new things. I believe in mutual respect, good communication, consent, and kindness.

Physically, I’m told I’m handsome/cute/good looking frequently. I’m 5’8”, about 165#, and have longish hair (there's a recent picure in my profile). I try to stay in good shape and have worked out most of my life, but due to tennis elbow issues have been less active for the past year.

I’m poly, live by myself, and have a good job.

You: Hopefully you have a good sex drive and a desire to be frequently well pleased, and you agree that limiting my orgasms benefits us both. You’re close to my age and take care of yourself. You’re good at communicating in and out of bed, and you believe that mutual respect and kindness are important.

IRL only, please. Taking the time and focusing on your pleasure in person is a key part of my kink, and online can't give me that. Please be local.

No Pro Dommes, please. I'm seeking a real relationship

Let’s build more than just a great sexual dynamic.