Introduction:

Hi! I'm a 28 year old guy currently living in NW London in the UK.

I'm using a throwaway account for this because it's 100% SFW over on my main, and because well it's rather embarrassing. Making this post isn't the embarrassing part just to be clear, I mean some of the bad jokes and memes I've made over on the other account are just too shamefully awful to share with people who might want to talk to me here.

Physical details:

I'm 5'7, have hazel eyes, short-ish black hair, white and pale as an anaemic ghost, skinny with a bit of belly (which I'm working on getting rid of), a short beard, some scars that would be considerably less cool sounding if I spilled the beans on where they are and how I got them, average sized cock, a decent amount of body hair, and two left feet.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a gentle domme who is kind, communicative, respectful of boundaries, and who wants the same in return from me.

Someone with a sense of humour, who knows what they want and is willing to take control to get it, and either lives within travelling distance or visits London often.

My main reason for making this post is to find a romantic partner, so ideally you're also someone looking for the same. I'm potentially open to other kinds of relationships forming from this but I want to be as clear as I can that my end goal is to find someone to love and be loved by.

Beyond that, you're a person. I can describe all kinds of attributes and traits that I find appealling but at the end of the day we're all here looking to connect with and get to know others. I'm open to a connection with someone so long as they fit the above, anything beyond that is something for me to learn about you as we get to know one another.

What I'm not looking for:

• Someone who would use me as a punching bag, whether literally or figuratively.
• Someone who gets off solely from power or cruelty.
• Someone who is too far away/who would only want to do things online.
• Someone who leans right politically.
• Someone who thinks Shrek The 3rd is the best Shrek.

Vanilla me:

Personality: I'm a considerate, friendly, compassionate, and playful person who is primarily driven by my anxiety and desire to make others happy.

Hobbies: cooking, painting other crafty things, gaming, puns, music/films/shows. I'm not a smoker and I don't drink (but might be open to doing so with/for someone I trust), though I am a recovering chocaholic. I'm also currently volunteering a couple of times a week, and trying to maintain doing 10k steps or an equivalent amount of exercise each day.

Random selection of things I like: butterflies, mythology, owls, cuddles, the idea of being an all powerful dimension shifting wizard, fun facts, even more cuddles, chocolate, lychees, various rice dishes, basically everything with potato in, discussions of ethical quandaries, making things for people, space.

Mint Choc Chip Kinky me:

I'm a switch with very little experience as a submissive. I'm more comfortable (currently) as a dom, but feel like that and my experience mostly being as a dom come down to the people I've met rather than who I am or am capable of being. While my ideal partner would also be a switch, it's absolutely not a dealbreaker if you aren't.

The following lists aren't exhaustive, so if there's anything in particular that you're interested in not mentioned, then please do let me know.

Likes:

• Cuddles/physical contact. I'm very physically affectionate.
• Edging/orgasm control.
• An assertive partner who takes control.
• Words of affirmation/praise/things that make me feel needed or wanted.

Curious to try:

• Bondage/tie and tease/blindfold.
• Body worship.
• Acts of service.
• Some level of control over my schedule/activities/clothes/etc.

Soft Limits:

• Anal play on me. I've never done this, but I'd be open to trying it with someone once I trust them, but I can't promise anything beyond the possibility.

Hard limits:

• Scat/piss/blood/knife/etc play, anything involving disgust or danger.
• Forced bi.
• Sissification/feminisation.
• Humiliation/extreme degradation.
• Intense pain.

Conclusion/communication:

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I look forward to hearing from any interested dommes.

To show that you've actually ready my post, please include a comment or observation about something you liked (or disliked) from the post in your initial message. It works to show you're genuine, and also acts as a nice jumping off point :)

I primarily use Discord and Whatsapp for talking to people but I'm happy to use whichever method for communication works best for you, except smoke signals because as previously mentioned I don't smoke. In addition, I'm open to sending a face picture to someone if we get along.