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OLD - how to handle messaging to connect?
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I got divorced 2 years ago and after spending time working on me, I feel like I'm ready to date. I've been following this subreddit and agree with the FDS strategy. My friend suggested I sign up for Bumble, which I did, but on there the woman has to message first. So if I'm applying FDS, where the man is to be pursuing the woman, what are some tips on making that initial connecting message on Bumble that doesn't cast me as a pickme? For context, I'm older and I've never used OLD before.

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