Im sorry if this isnt allowed in some groups, and I absolutely understand, I just felt this is a situation people should be warned about and be made aware of, knowing that hes been known to be fairly active in these communities.

Posting this just to warn and inform anyone about him, and to confirm he definitely does NOT have a “clear name” like hes apparently been claiming to people who ask- and that it got so bad that he now even LEGALLY is not allowed near me, or to have absolutely anything to do with me online, and neither is his girlfriend.

I will remain inactive on this account for who knows how much longer still- cause it turns out what it took for my sex drive to get cut down (almost completely unfortunately) was trauma and fear :/ ) Ive been waiting to post this official update until the papers were finally served because I know hes been making accounts on every social media to get around me having blocked him.

Id mentioned briefly here that hed shown up at my house and lied about his identity when confronted even, all AFTER Id told him to leave me alone after he threw a fit when I said hed made me uncomfortable and to completely leave me alone. He hunted down my other social media accounts and made multiple accounts trying to pretend to be different people to convince me to forgive him, and when I realized it was him he sent me at least two LONG very angry and semi-threatening messages from at least two different accounts even. and has proceeded to say “final goodbye” multiple times and then finding a way to still contact me again anyways- Theres a lot more tbh but I dont feel like going into it all, and probably shouldnt. It started as a consensual okayish acquaintance that very quickly evolved/devolved the more I tried to create boundaries and say “No” and “Stop” more actively. (he also states on his account that he was admitted himself into a ward for his mental health because of me- but it wasnt a even a week later after hed first said that that he began contacting me)

And note that after he showed up to my home in October I only engaged with him one last time to give a final “Leave me alone PLEASE” and never engaged in any other message that was openly from him, yet he continued.

He is delusional and obsessive and has 0 self awareness and I want to warn any and all to avoid engaging with him- and if you do- be as absolutely aggressively firm as you can about boundaries and not wanting to get too involved with him especially because of his obsessiveness.

I wouldnt usually even make a callout post for someone I have beef or drama with or whose sent me just one or two alarming messages- but this is a WHOLE other level that I feel matters to others to be aware of just in case.

His accounts on reddit are CanonMan1 and Lord0Trade