Hello everyone. I hope this kind of post is allowed, I just really have to get this off my chest.

Let me preface this by saying that I love this sub, I met a bunch of very interesting people on here, one of which is my current sub, which I am very thankful for. I have been on the dominant and submissive side of this subreddit a lot and still visit from time to time because there is always something interesting or new whenever I check in, although I stopped taking an active role in it some time ago.

However, there are some problems with this sub which I encounter from time to time, the biggest of those being the blatant distespect of limits, boundaries and common sense.

You have probably encountered this type of issue as well, usually you can find it in the comments of F4M or F4A posts. I am talking about posts in which the posting person sets a limit of i.e. taking pictures, just to be asked to send pics in the comments. Or posts where they ask to keep stuff in the comments, but once I visit those comments, I see 5 comments that say "Send you a DM".

Cant you fucking respect peoples boundaries???

I know you are horny, I know you might not feel like this is a big problem, but it is. Respect other people and their boundaries, even or especially in a Dom/Sub Scenario, except if they explicitly ask you not to (Which is very very rarely the case as far as my experience goes).

Other problems include men commenting on F4F or M4F posts, as well as pushing behaviour that is either highly illegal or very dangerous.

If you take your time to read this, you probably are not a part of those problems, but I still felt like I had to get this off my chest.

Also, this is not a jab at the mods, as far as I can tell, this problem cant be fixed by moderation alone because the speed of dialogue between commenters and posters is really fast on this sub and usually limited to a very short timeframe after each post.

Thank you for your time and please stay safe, have fun and respect one another