This post will be a little different. I am a switch and am looking for a switch, domme or submissive. I will share what I am into as both a dom and a submissive.

Here are some things I am looking for. This will only be online, so you must be willing to do that. I understand that with things like this, the attraction needs to be mutual. I will ask that you be comfortable sharing pictures and videos at some point. I will gladly share some of myself as well, especially if I am the submissive. I will not ask for full nudes right away, but a clothed selfie without your face will be appreciated early on. I understand wanting to be safe, I have been burned in the past myself. However, after we are both comfortable, I would like to see you. You don't need to include your face, but would love it if I could see a smiling face, that's always great to see.

I am in the Midwest, so I am in central time zone. It would be ideal if you were within a couple hours of me.

Things I am into as a dom: Some of my favorite kinks are edging and orgasm control and denial. I love getting a sub all built up and then deny them the orgasm they crave. Other things I'm into include nipple play and torture, spanking, ruined orgasms, breathplay, pain, daily tasks and rules, impact play and pussy spanking and torture. I enjoy some degradation and humiliation, and am also wanting to try more lifestyle control. This is not a must have list for me. I'm always willing to try new things and am flexible. If there is something in this list you are unsure of or don't want to do, don't let that deter you from messaging me.

Things I am into as a sub: Again, as a sub I absolutely love edging, orgasm control and denial. I can edge pretty easily, so being made to edge over and over again is a love/hate thing. I'm also into ruined orgasms, chastity, anal play, CBT, nipple play and torture, pain, impact play, choking and breath play, daily tasks and rules and a little bit of humiliation and degradation. I'm so into some sissy and dress up stuff. I don't want to be fully feminine, but do enjoy it sometimes.

Limits for both: I don't do blood, scat, anything illegal or permanent. Obviously in addition to these would be your limits.

I am looking for someone into pain and impact play. The level of pain you can handle is negotiable, but the more pain you can handle, the better. The ideal sub would be a masochist. I also want someone that enjoys giving up control and micromanagement. This is not a requirement, but it is highly preferred you want to build into this.

I know this has been long winded and hope someone has at least read this far. Anyone who is still with me, hope you have a great day and hope to hear from you soon.