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23 [F4M] I'm a Virgin didn't know what to do in first move
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PhoenixRise_ is a female age 23 looking for a male
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So, here's the thing. I’m 23, and despite being a part of the dating world for a while, I’m still a virgin. It's not that I haven't had opportunities or that I'm against the idea it's just that I’ve always been cautious and wanted to wait for the right moment. But recently, I met someone and we hit it off instantly. The chemistry was undeniable, and for the first time, I felt ready to take that next step.

But here's where it gets tricky. When the moment came, I was completely unsure of what to do next. I had no idea how to make that first move or what the expectations were. I didn’t want to come off as awkward, but I also didn’t want to rush into anything either.

I’ve been reading and trying to figure out what’s expected, but it feels like every situation is so different. It's been really tough to gauge the best approach. I guess I just need advice how do you make that first move when you're not sure what the other person wants? How do you even know if you're doing it right?

Honestly, I just want to take things at my own pace but also not miss out on the experience. Any tips, stories, or just some reassurance would really mean a lot!

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