Like actually? I know the title is cheeky, but what would realistically actually convince you, if anything, like deadass, like to actually actually be a part of your lover's harem for realzies? No joke answers (half-joke answers are allowed lol).

And if you'd actually join, (follow up question!), what would make you stay... or maybe even commit to him?

By harem I mean one man who acts as the financial provider and provides housing and income for all of you under the same roof. He is in a romantic (and/or sexual I guess) relationship with you; he loves you, and you love him (and/or just a sexual or kinky bond, whatever is your cup of tea). He is in a similar relationship with the other women under the same roof as well. Some relationships might be romantic. Some relationships might be sexual. Some relationships might be both. There is some level of emotional intimacy between the man and all of his lovers under his roof.

You don't owe him anything, no sex required, you're not imprisoned, you're not expected to bring him other women, you can freely leave the house and relationship with no questions asked, and you're free to date and fuck whoever else you want as is he and everyone else living under his roof! Also, he treats each relationship differently including the bond you two share because he sees every relationship is different!

There is an undetermined number of women who are his partners living under his roof, but let's just say the number could be one other woman to ten other women.

And honestly, I don't know how this would play out, but genuinely I want to try this. But like, with people I actually care about emotionally, not just an emotionless thing with a bangmaid of a wife, a trophy wife, a human sex toy or sex slave... not that's there's anything wrong with wanting to be those things. My point is that every relationship would be built on a foundation of emotional intimacy instead of shallow and hollow... well, "woman-collecting" if we want to be cynical about it.

Anyways, feel free to send me a chat and let me know what you think. I'm open to discussing this topic too in general. Hmu :D