Hello!! I'm very new to Fansly still (only a few weeks) and was wondering what a good way to set boundaries with dms would be? Since I'm new, I have them open to followers so I can answer any questions folks may have about tiers, the content offered etc (I don't do IRL content, I do Vtuber stuff and art stuff - so sometimes people like to ask for more detailed info on what they're getting).

But I have started getting dms from people who want to talk and have more intimate discussions, and while I have politely declined (since I am extremely busy full-time outside of Fansly, I cannot reliably offer a "dms tier" that would be worth the subscribers money), some have pushed for it despite me politely declining?

all my responses have been "in-character" when declining. Should I just restrict my DMs to require tipping to message, or more firmly set my boundaries out of character when things overstep my personal line?

Thank you in advance!! I'm still trying to figure out what I'm comfortable/not comfortable doing, so I might end up asking a few more questions in this sub :'D