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My (soon-to-be ex) husband has been secretly recording our daughter for years
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So my husband (45M) has been recording our daughter (21F) and taking pictures of her against her will. For context her records her leaving her room. He records her doing dishes. He takes random pics of her doing basic things. If he is sitting on one couch when she comes downstairs he shifts to another couch so he can record her fully.

We recently learned of this behavior when she noticed that every time she comes down from her room he will prop his phone or his iPad up and start taking pictures/videos of her. She suspected it was happening so one day while he was out we decided to go through his iPad. To our astonishment he has been doing this for years, even dating back to when she was just a minor. She has asked him to stop, to which he just smirks in her face and keeps doing it. Yesterday she caught him recording her while she had her back to him using the computer. She also said she heard the definite sound of him sending a message soon after.

A few weeks ago we called the police on him because an argument arose that got quite aggressive over the recordings. The police told us it is a one party state and that he is allowed to record.

I am in the process of getting saving up to move us out and getting a divorce, but I want to know if there is anything that I can do in the meantime to get this behavior to stop legally? My daughter has set boundaries that he is not respecting and he keeps causing intentional conflicts just to get a rise out of us.

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It’s marital property. πŸ€“

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But they said some of the photos are from when she was a minor.

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I’d take the iPad and lock it up somewhere out of the home while they investigate further. They may need it later.

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