They're wanting to divorce their spouse after almost a couple years being married, stating they are confused. This person wanting the divorce is under 22, so they are young but it came out of nowhere. This person's spouse was blindsided as well as us, fellow famuly members and friends. The person wanting the divorce is my child, I'm really disappointed in their sudden want to just end it and not give any details of what happened or why. The only reason that was given was "we grew apart." The spouse contacted us just to talk and we still love them very much, there has always been a great connection there. The spouse said "no, it wasn't mutual, they (our child) wanted to leave." While their relationship is none of our business, our child is still fairly young and has agreed they may need our help if they move or relocate. My husband and I agree its very difficult to "help" if we have no information of their relocation. They said they may stay where they are or they may relocate to a specific state. They told us the state and the city, but it's extremely random. They have never talked about this citt or state, ever and we have asked "oh what makes you want to move there?" They immediately shutdown and refused to talk about it. We don't care if its a thing of a friend who lives out there or they met someone and that was the reason for the divorce and them wanting to go there, or a college program etc. They will not give a reason, they just want to move to this random state where they don't know anyone and its still fairly far from us. They hate ha ing to travel to come visit us and have wanted to be closer to us. So for them to suddenly want to move to a random state and get divorced, I really can't help but to think that they met someone and they don't want to admit it. Any opinions or suggestions of how to deal with this. We feel so confused and thrownnfor a loop because all of this came out of nowhere and we have a great relationship with our child, so for them to just shutdown on the whole thing and not want to really dislose anything, its weird.