and even though he said he was “mainly attracted to women. gynesexual. attracted to feminine ppl” —i know i know red flag 😅 but i thought oh i’ll give him the benefit of the doubt. it should be obvious i look like a guy based on my description of myself—

and after a couple of days of dragged out one a day messages becuz of a “time zone difference”… but again. benefit of the doubt, maybe he’s sooo busy he only has time for literally seemingly only five minutes of reddit a day lol— and so we get to the pics part. i send him mine first. he didn’t respond to the chat with that pic but messaged me like normal replying to me in the non-chat direct messages.

so i asked about if he got my chat w/the pic. wait until next day. then i see he accepted my chat request w/ my pic. and then there is radio silence completely for a full 24 hours when there should have been the one message he would’ve sent already.

i had also told him like three times, when first sending pic, and when asking again in chat and the direct messages if he got it, that it’s okay if i’m not a type he’s into.

anyway yeah. found this funny at the end of the day. i entertained that maybe there was a chat glitch, but the radio silence the minute he accepts the chat request w/ the pic makes that hard to believe.

and so, either i was more masculine looking than he thought (cue was this rly a str8 guy being transphobic— what else is new 🙄) or i just simply wasn’t a type he liked. but he decided to stop communicating so all i can do is assume. and yeah i didn’t want to question his sexuality initially but 🤷 now i am

he also said he could’ve been my daddy dom like i was looking for, which is rich based on how all this turned out with the very “dominant” behavior of ignoring someone and not communicating.

i also didn’t fully prefer this whole thing as i’ve always planned on having my pics up and describing the types of masc men i’m into when i put up ads and such at whatever point in near or later future.

and besides this guy being tall, he may not have matched up with what i was looking for. but i still would’ve just told him that when he sent his pic if we had gotten there instead of being rude

i sent him a long little thing with my grievances earlier lol