I don't have a ton of friends but I do have a ton of people I see regularly and we talk all the time. Usually at the kids sport events or just around the community. Some of which are my kids best friends parents and I have a decent friendly relationship with.

I'm pretty sure they're going to notice soon as my facial hair is starting to really come in and my voice is getting harder to keep in a female range.

I'm not sure if I should tell them, or just kind of keep chugging along in these spaces until its brought up. I'm not very open about my trans identity, and I get worried about all these things.

I'm also not out at work, where I watch young kids at a gym.

What have you found is the best way to handle these situations?