I'm consider myself queer/bisexual, but I do tend more towards women. My taste in men is very specific, and I don't find a lot of men that fit my type. My taste in women is a much broader spectrum. However women are not interested in me. Cis, trans, etc, doesn't matter, not interested. I've tried all the things. The only thing I haven't tried is approaching people in person, but as a transman that feels too risky, and also there are too many things to guess (age and dating status because the two most important) But I cannot meet single girls who may be open to dating me anywhere for the life of me. I'm in my mid 30s, I'm ready to meet someone and get married, how tf do I date??

EDIT: Thanks everyone for the input. Sorry if any of my replies are so negative nancy. It's hard watching all your friends date/get married/have all these life experiences and I'm just not having them. I'm very lonely, and often feel lost, and trying gets so exhausting at times its like I'm going crazy. But I do appreciate your words.