I linked a youtube video which may make it easier to understand the problem. My pc Specs are: Ryzen 5 3600, 32gb ram, 1080ti and my load order is as follows:

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Fallout4.esm

DLCRobot.esm

DLCworkshop01.esm

DLCCoast.esm

DLCworkshop02.esm

DLCworkshop03.esm

DLCNukaWorld.esm

ccbgsfo4016-prey.esl

ccfsvfo4001-modularmilitarybackpack.esl

ccbgsfo4045-advarccab.esl

ccfsvfo4003-slocum.esl

cceejfo4002-nuka.esl

ccsbjfo4002_manwellrifle.esl

Unofficial Fallout 4 Patch.esp

lnrLMFO4AllInOne-PubesForeverOverlays.esl

CWSS Redux.esp

EthreonMasterPlan.esm

IceStormsUggs.esl

FaceLight.esl

Rusty Face Fix.esl

XDI.esm

aes_snappingcab.esl

HUDFramework.esm

MIA.esl

ArmorKeywords.esm

Skb_MachinegunsRebirth.esl

SettlementSalvageBot.esl

Stronger Behemoth.esl

SettlementGardenBot.esl

Skb-MinigunsRebirth.esl

SettlementCopBot.esl

WorkshopFramework.esm

NukaWorldOpenSeasonExtend.esl

SettlementMedicBot.esl

SettlementTidyBot.esl

SettlementFixerBot.esl

SS2.esm

SimHomestead2.esp

SimSettlements2_AddOnPack_ApocalypticAdditions_SirLach.esp

SimSettlements2ChildSupport.esp

SS2WhisperPowerPlots.esp

SS2 Better Outfits.esp

SS2 Junk Storage Capacity.esp

SS2_XDI Patch-Basic.esp

BOCW - Park Heist.esp

dcc-dialog-helm.esp

Power Armor Carry Weight.esp

Paintings Kinky.esp

LooksMenu.esp

MiRF.esp

Clothes Pack v2.0 by DonEb14n.esp

Clothes Pack 3 by DonEb14n.esp

Clothes Pack 4 by DonEb14n.esp

Binoculars.esp

DV-Deadly Vertibirds.esp

SnapBeds.esp

rpampas.esp

KKYpampas.esp

OCDecorator.esp

OCDecoratorDLC.esp

OCDispenser.esp

FilledDinerCounters.esp

Scrounger DLC Fix.esp

WorkshopRearranged.esp

FilledBrahminFeedTroughs.esp

CVSNWA.esp

MiscHairstyle.esp

NAC.esp

NAC-FH.esp

NAC-NW.esp

ThisIsTrash.esp

Custom Concrete with Glass.esp

UseableToilet.esp

BuildableTentPieces.esp

FactoryAddOn.esp

NinjaKittyHentai.esp

Crimsomrider's Affinity.esp

Fixed Alpha Map.esp

DLCLetters.esp

SLR.esp

Crimsomrider's DLC Ammo.esp

Settlements - ALL DLC - Lights Out.esp

No More Fucking Birds.esp

Remove Interior Fog - All Dlc.esp

Woodfuzzy_FinchFarm.esp

The Collector's Guides AIO.esp

Eli_Armour_Compendium.esp

Snappy_HouseK.esp

CoffeeAndDonutsWorkshopExpanded.esp

CHEF.esp

CraftingFramework.esp

CraftingFrameworkAWKCR2.esp

CraftingFramework_ChipLoot.esp

GhoulBlood.esp

GKX Apple Tree.esp

MMSquads.esp

MilitarizedMinutemen.esp

HoodieOutfit.esp

SpectacleIslandBoat.esp

EroticArt.esp

The Collector's Guides Erotic-Art Addon AIO.esp

Deathclaw Nests.esp

Another Sanctuary Bridge V2.0.esp

Amelia and Dan at Bunker Hill.esp

crx_HammerTime_Sanctuary.esp

MK18.esp

M60-M60E3.esp

WestTekTacticalOptics.esp

SS2_WestTek.esp

SS2_SIMPDDDD.esp

companion_charlotte_eslified.esp

Sanctuary Raider & Dog Removed.esp

[SS2 Addon] SimSettlements SuperStructures.esp

RU556.esp

RU556_RUTex.esp

AkaWaterWorld.esp

creativeclutter.esp

SS2Addon_MS_BareEssentials.esp

SS2-PraRandomAddon.esp

BoxHouses.esp

CabinInTheWoods.esp

BobIguanaDiner.esp

AutoDoors.esp

AD_DLC.esp

VaultGirl.esp

SettleObjExpandPack.esp

SettleObjExpandPack-AllLightShadowEnabler.esp

SettleObjExpandPack-AutoDoorsPatch.esp

ClothingShelves.esp

roadflare.esp

CompanionAccuracy.esp

Companion Infinite Ammo and Unbreakable Power Armour.esp

ButcherMeatRack.esp

HelmetHide.esp

SanctuaryParts.esp

You Talk Too Much.esp

R97R Camo Robot Skins.esp

DanseAccuracy.esp

dD-Enhanced Blood Basic.esp

dD - Screen Blood Duration Medium.esp

ASA.esp

RobotAccuracy.esp

DanLi_VaultExplorer.esp

155mm Howitzer M1.esp

Better Ceiling Fan Light.esp

K-Girl outfits.esp

Crimsomrider's 1950s Feminine Outfits.esp

LivingInterior.esp

GS Lever Action Shotgun.esp

RemingtonM11.esp

MK18 Armory Project.esp

MK18_Deluxe.esp

Glock19x.esp

AnotherMK18Addon.esp

FO4HHS.esp

CombinedArmsNV.esp

Scopes.esp

AK400.esp

Wetness Shader Fix.esp

3dscopes.esp

More Where That Came From Diamond City.esp

SKKRESystemManager.esp

Skb-MinigunsRebirth_AWKCR_Patch.esp

MinigunDamage v2.0x.esp

SS2WastelandReconstructionKit.esp

PIP-Pad.esp

SkEyes.esp

BetterVertibirdMinigun300.esp

SCM.esp

Deeper Thoughts - Expressive Curie.esp

DeirdreFixerUpper.esp

Tone Slave.esp

Crimsomrider's Convenient Resources.esp

ImmersiveVendors.esp

Ronfix.esp

SkjAlert_All_DLC.esp

MoreFuckinMeat.esp

MoreMeat - DLC Addon.esp

NukaWorldMeat.esp

AVBPipeGunsReplace.esp

AVBMGReplace.esp

AVBMusket.esp

AVDelivererReplace.esp

CHEF - Slocum Patch.esp

CompactCrafting.esp

Vault-Tec Workshop Overhaul Redux.esp

No More Fake Puddles - Nuka World 1-0.esp

HoloTime.esp

AdvSettleTurretSet-RealNP.esp

CC Manwell Rifle Unofficial Patch.esp

BuildableBurningCampfires.esp

DeaconClothingCK.esp

MIA.esp

BetterOpenSeason.esp

Vault Meat Paintings.esp

DetectDroppedWeapon.esp

BetterNightVision.esp

DarkerNights.esp

DarkerNightsDetection.esp

BrighterSettlementLights_ExtraBrightv1.1.esp

The Eyes Of Beauty.esp

KSHairdos.esp

DC Guards.esp

bEnableConsoleMenuDuringSurvival.esp

SKKDynamicTimescale.esp

DX Commonwealth Shorts.esp

DX Vault Girl Shorts.esp

DX_Vault_111_Outfit.esp

Eli_PrudyVaultJumpsuit.esp

DX Commonwealth Mini Dresses.esp

Eli_RuggedOutfits.esp

Eli_Sleeveless Outfits.esp

Evil Detective Outfit.esp

VVDressStandalone - AWKCR.esp

Modern - Cross Explorer.esp

JC-Shirt and Jeans.esp

Eli_Steampunk Gunslinger.esp

Eli_Utility Jumpsuits.esp

Nexus_PMC.esp

PMC_extended.esp

SKKGlobalStashScrapping.esp

SKKVertibirdWorldTravel.esp

FFC_AppealingMoles.esp

FFC_KirsFreckles.esp

FFC_Valkyre_Fair.esp

ImmersiveScrapping_SeasonPass.esp

LMBTOverlays.esp

Lots More Facial Hair.esp

Lots More Male Hairstyles.esp

Lots More Female Hairstyles.esp

AzarPonytailHairstyles.esp

BetterSettlersNoLollygagging.esp

CBBE.esp

CBBEHeadRearFix.esp

LooksMenu Customization Compendium.esp

LooksMenu1stPersonViewItemsFix.esp

PIP-Pad_LMCC.esp

MilitarisedMinutemen_PatchesAddon.esp

Militarized Minutemen - Craftable Outfits.esp

Wasteland Heroines Replacer All in One_2.0.esp

CompRedo.esp

Crimsomrider's Companions Like Streaking.esp

SS_PiperCaitCurie.esp

AppleTree Bakery CHEF Patch.esp

Gunner_Operator.esp

TALGR.esp

BetterCompanions.esp

Armorsmith Extended.esp

modularmilitarybackpack.esp

Crimsomrider's Accessories.esp

CCMMB_CutContent.esp

Synth Overhaul.esp

Synth Overhaul - Black Patch.esp

SuperMutantRedux.esp

EnhancedLightsandFX.esp

Pip-Boy Flashlight.esp

PIP-Pad_Pip-BoyFlashlight.esp

SS2_FDK_TinyLiving.esp

SS2WastelandVenturers.esp

ohSIM_Sim2_Settlements_Scrappers_Addon.esp

SS2-Jampads2.esp

JunkTownTwo.esp

JunkTown-FENCES2.esp

SS2_CityPlanPack_RiseOfTheCommonwealth.esp

SS2_ruined_simsettlement_addonpack.esp

SS2AOP_VaultTecTools.esp

SS2Extended.esp

Scrap Everything - Ultimate Edition.esp

BetterSettlers.esp

BetterSettlersCleanFacePack.esp

BetterSettlersCCAPack2.0.esp

BetterSettlersMostlyFemale.esp

Fo4FI_FPS_fix.esp