Hey all been on F-List for a few months now and I've appreciated the insight everyone has had here.

I've tried numerous times to initiate a notes start with people. I ensure they have it listed on their page that their preference is notes, or partner preference, or notes are listed in their description.

I read through their pages, make note of similar kinks and try to come up with a prompt that meets their kinks as well as mine. My page is set up with kinks, some prompt ideas and a cover photo. I've Messaged close to 20 people I've gotten 4 responses with one saying no thank you.

My question is for some of these others that I'm really interested in trying an RP with do I assume they weren't interested or did I get lost in a sea of notes and I should try again? I don't want to come across pushy or annoying, but no response has me wondering my writing, my prompt, or my profile need changes.

Sorry if I come across whiney, I promise I'm not trying to. I am trying to get into RP and am beginning to lose interest, though I think I'd love it. Any help or insight would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!