Hey everyone,

I wanted to share a quick reminder for fellow subs—especially those like me who are new or still exploring their submission. I recently had someone message me on Fetlife who seemed like a caring, dominant woman at first. But as the conversation continued, it became pretty clear that something was off. The way they spoke, the way they pushed boundaries, and how the conversation shifted toward something that didn’t feel right—it all started to feel like someone taking advantage of my vulnerability as a sub.

It’s easy to trust when you’re craving connection, and even easier to fall into the trap of someone who knows how to manipulate that desire. We subs are often in a vulnerable position, and it’s important to protect ourselves from those who might try to exploit that for their own gain. Not every domme you encounter online has your best interests at heart—some are just looking to twist their way into your life, and not in a healthy way.

Please, take your time, and don’t hesitate to ask questions or set firm boundaries. A real domme will respect you and your comfort levels, not push or guilt you into anything. Stay safe, trust your instincts, and don’t let anyone take advantage of your submission. 💜