Hi!

I (25M) wonder if anyone else in this community feels like they’re so tame? I kinda want a vanilla-ish relationship without all the bells and whistles that come with a more ‘kinky’ relationship. For example, I don’t see myself or them getting all dressed up, and seeing myself feminised. But seeing a lot of posts in these communities, that’s what a lot of people seem to want, and I feel a bit left out in a way.

I don’t want a BDSM lifestyle. I just want a kind, loving relationship/fwb with me being more at the bottom/receiving end of things. I’m a highly sensitive person that loves being authentic to himself, and giving/receiving so much affection and compassion. I want us to feel safe with each other, and perhaps feel wholesomely horny at times, especially as I’ve felt a lot of shame regarding my sexuality.

I apologise if this doesn’t make much sense and if I’m rambling too much, but yeah, just wondered if anyone else felt this way. :)