I love being submissive, and if something makes my partner happy, I generally want to to do it. What really turns me on, though, is breast and oral service. I'm happy to spend a few hours servicing her when time allows, but I'd be happy to just give her a quick couple of orgasms when it doesn't.

The other major turn on for me is when she doesn't reciprocate at all and it's literally just about pleasing her. I love it when she cums and offers mock sympathy for my not getting to. I also love it when my partner touches me, lets me see how good it can feel, and stops. Ideally, I'd get the occasional ruined orgasm -- and just to keep me hoping every time she touches me -- lets me have a rare explosive orgasm.

The rest of the stuff isn't all that necessary for me. While I'm open to it, I don't need to call her mommy or mistress, I don't need to be pegged, and I don't need to be restrained. I definitely don't want to be caged. I just want to know that my place is to please her, and her place is to do as little as possible to experience as much pleasure as she wants, when she wants it. Though I do love being the little spoon or having my face in her boobs as we cuddle.

As for the stuff out of the bedroom, I'm more than happy to cook, clean, bring her tea or wine, rub her back or feet, tell her she's wonderful, get her a blanket, cuddle, and do all the other things to make her life easier. But I don't want to dress like a sub at home (though I'm open to some CFNM), have time to run her errands outside the house, or have "chores" around the house. These are just things I do for her because they make her happy.

I really just want my partner to kind of take for granted that I'm there to service her in all these ways, but I also want her to praise me for taking care of her so well when I do.

Does this fit gentle or extra gentle femdom?