Gf of 3yrs and me broke up beginning of January (ultimately her decision). She’s been hot and cold for most of the time since. More so leaning towards the colder side. Wants to text me about her “in my feelings” problems but gives a generic variation of “I don’t want to talk about it right now” when I inquire for more context. When I don’t respond I’m the bad guy but it’s perfectly ok for her to do it. I’ve been good about not taking the bait recently but..

Last night I get the text… “Hi… Are you up” around 1a. Then another this morning… “good morning. We need to talk txt when u get a chance”

My response I feel understandably was “Are you ok?”

Her: “I’m ok but we need to talk about (our dog)

For obvious concern if as if she(our dog) is okay. Then ex calls and tells me how the girls(both dogs) have been fight more aggressively the past few weeks and that ex was considering giving the young one to her friend temporarily but hasn’t made a decision.

My question is why tell me this knowing I don’t have a say in the choice and my current living situation won’t allow me to take the puppy in? “Just wanted to let you know” is her response and that it would be temporary if she did let the friend watch her(puppy)

Just seems like she unintentionally or intentionally made me concerned with an option less decision that I have no control in.

What’s the aim here?