So it had been a month of no contact with my ex and she e-mailed me a month later. The message felt weird it was about help with an electric account we had together she was polite said hello and thank you about it. So I took my time to respond about 6 or 7 hours. I finally responded but I feel I was too direct and to the point and might have messed up. I said I changed the email and password for you and you should not have a problem logging in. No hello or your welcome. She never responded. I feel it was a test to see if I would respond and chase. I'm hoping by not validating I gave my self worth but I hope I didt pushed her away with a cold shoulder and her testing owut the water to make her not reach out again. I just didn't want to sound to nice and make her think I was happy to hear from her.