Hi all,

I need tough love motivation, not gentle comments but ones like STAND UP GIRL to keep me from breaking no contact.

Background context: My ex and I were together for 6 months. I thought it was a good relationship overall. I told him I loved him on my birthday, he did not say it back. Before he broke up with me, we went to a wedding 3 days prior. When he broke up with me, it was an array of reasons why. I am a nurse and he is a student and we were in 2 different life places. I was anxious attachment style which made me insecure. I am hoping to get married one day, and he is just hoping to finish school. He told me I was too good for him, I did do a lot for him. He told me he prioritizes his goals rn over the relationship, which I respect.

I just miss him so much. We did have fun and were good together. Ugh. Its been 3 months no contact and he has not reached out.

Self Tough Love: I respect myself enough to not reach out. I worked mofo hard for the life I have and I loved him so much and gave him so much and he still CHOSE TO WALK AWAY! He chose to do that. And that’s all the closure I need. I’m so tired of chasing love and affection from people who CHOSE to walk away, and I hate myself sometimes but not enough to crawl to a man who break my heart.