It’s been MONTHS but he had started to do it slowly a few days ago by sending me friend requests. I didn’t cave and I probably would have replied if it had been text or social media message… But he called me 40 times back to back ( I thought he was blocked) and it reminded me right away why we were no contact.

I accepted his snap to ask him what he wanted because I wasn’t going to answer the phone. He just said “you can’t pickup the phone anymore?” And that he didn’t want anything in particular. I told him it’s been months and I know how he is so I wasn’t going to pickup his calls so he unadded me 🙄.

I’m happy I made this much progress and that he decided to be dumb and spam me so I remembered exactly why I shouldn’t pick it up. I feel stronger for standing my ground. He didn’t have anything worthwhile to say thankfully because I might have been dumb again.