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Hello all.
About 6 weeks ago, I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. We lived together. Unfortunately, a few weeks later I really regretted my decision and got back into contact with her. She agreed she still loved me and was willing to give us another chance. So we started going on dates and she even spent a weekend with me at my place. Fast forward a few days later, she is going to move 3.5 hours away to live with her dad and move back to her hometown. She said she would be open to trying long distance even tho we aren’t back together. I told her to give me some time to process this as the day she told me she was moving for sure, she was looking for apartments to rent in my current city. After some time to think, I told her it’s gonna be a challenge but maybe we can do long distance. In the end, she said she just needs to be single and focus on herself. She doesn’t know if she can trust me. So I told her I understood, I want to be with her but if she doesn’t then I understand. I told her I wish her the best and if anything changes, to call me. Later on that night, she called me and started asking me questions about why I would do long distance and if I would eventually marry her or have kids. And of course at the end of the call, I told her she can always reach out to me in just a phone call away. She then said that she shouldn’t be the only one reaching out.. after she had said we shouldn’t talk cause we are gonna hurt each other. I haven’t reached out yet and neither has she since the phone call last night. Many mixed signals. She’s moving in 10 days.. not sure what to think or do.
Thanks for reading all.
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