50 days after our last meeting, I succeeded.

I threw away her last things and the last things I had of her. As a symbol.

I decided to stop thinking about her and try to figure out why she killed me from the inside. Why did she make me suffer so much? Why did she cheated on me? I will never know. All I know is it’s not my fault and SHE failed because she missed a man who would have gave her the world.

Today I address you dear Redditors.

Please accept your sadness as it is. Accept to find yourself in such a horrible state that it is impossible for you to do anything with your day. I have been there and this step is important.

Then talk around you. Don’t keep it all to yourself. If you feel the need, go to the psychologist, there is no shame in wanting to heal.

When you’ll feel capable, take care of yourself. Get out, go to gym, travel, meet new people. That seems impossible at the present time, and that is normal. But soon, in the near future, you will succeed.

This girl was important to the point where she became my world. I understand how you feel. But do you want to continue to live in sadness? Do you want to kill your health for someone who no longer brings you happiness? Why seek happiness where it left you?

In my case, I met a girl on a trip. Everything happened without me realizing it. Today I go back to Belgium to find her for few more days.

The unthinkable happened: I found someone when I thought I’d never found someone better than her. (on the good aspects).

You will succeed. Thank you for all your comments under my old posts. Thank you for listening to me. Heal for me, but most importantly, do it for yourself.

You will succeed.

I love you. You deserve to be happy.