So my ex and I broke up in Jan. I was still hopeful that we might come back together at some point until I saw her out w some dude in late Feb.

We’ve been NC since then - I told her I needed to cut ties and blocked her.

It’s been going pretty well, ngl. I think about her often as we had been dating for marriage, and she started off very sweet… but I know that I dodged a bullet as she completely changed when I wouldn’t give her a baby in the first year (for the very valid reason that I’m not bringing a child into the world unless I know my life and my partners’ life and our relationship is ROCK solid.. which takes some time..) and then she started pulling back and showing her true self. She basically fits the bill for fearful avoidant, and social media-enhanced dark tetrad personality traits.

I digress. A couple weeks ago I was at the gym with my friend (George) when he divulged that my ex had read his diary in his home.. in the diary he expressed some reservations about his relationship with his girlfriend (Kylie) who we ALL love.

Apparently my ex shared what she had read with his Kylie which caused major issues in their relationship. Of course, at the time, my ex was pestering me about the fact that Kylie had stopped communicating with her.. I told her at the time that they were going through their own stuff, and not to take it personally.

So I’m finding out after the fact that my ex had done this sheisty move.. of course Kylie was avoiding her. And my friend — not mad at me at all — just wanted to share what had happened.

It made me so mad - knowing that I brought my ex around, and that she tried to meddle in my dear friend’s relationship. Why? I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it. It’s literally the only thing I want to discuss with Ex. So I messaged her tonight. She acted like she doesn’t know it’s me, even tho WhatsApp displays photos even if she has deleted my number (she’s also not so bright, another reason I’m glad I didn’t procreate with her..)

Please get me back in line folks. Thanks for reading. May we all be found by the love we deserve.