My dismissive avoidant ex treated me terribly, cancelling plans all the time, showing up 2-4 hours late, bread-crumbing me which led to me developing an anxious attachment.

I have never been an anxious person in a relationship and I realised that this is not working. On our 6 month anniversary my DA tells me that they are busy from working so we will meet on the next day instead. On that day they text me that they are going out on the Friday night to meet a friend.

I realised that this wasn’t working so I told them that I don’t want to see them anymore. The call lasted 30 seconds.

Now they tell me that I screamed at them, I never did. It makes me feel sad. That’s why they ignored and didn’t talk to me for three months.

They never took accountability for how they treated me and instead are making up some invisible boundary I never knew.

I am really sad because I love them a lot but I can’t put up with being treated like this.

Never going to ever go back to them